Richard Taylor has written a wonderful article on getting family members with Alzheimer’s to stop driving. One of the most important points he makes is that you should prepare for this moment well in advance.
I know that we were surprised by William’s sudden inability to drive safely and were unprepared for the power struggle over the keys. Although he had a caregiver who would take him anywhere he wanted to go during the day and a son to take him where he wanted to go at night, he would still steal the keys and try to drive off with the car.
Despite the fact that we did try sitting down one on one, explained consequences of unsafe driving and had alternate transportation set up, he felt stripped of power and angry. However, these suggestions for helping the Alzheimer’s victim hang up the car keys for good do work for many people.
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I’ve not been to this site of yours, but finding it today touched a nerve. I just lost my Dad two weeks ago after overseeing his care for the past four years. He was 88 and died from Pneumonia that he contracted from complications of the Alzheimers (swallowing difficulties).
My heart goes out to all those who are currently facing this challenge.
Comment by Laura - February 6, 2007 11:27 pm
Laura,
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss.
Katelyn
Comment by Anonymous - February 7, 2007 7:06 pm
Thanks Katelyn!
I really like your site. I wish I’d found it a little sooner. I’m sure that you will be a comfort to many people.
Comment by Laura - February 25, 2007 9:03 pm